A Joosr Guide to The Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox Cabane

Try not to dominate in discussions as this might lead you to disregard other people’s viewpoints

Call out to them clearly and loudly, and display powerful body language to show that you are in charge. Firmly tell them what needs to be done in order for everyone to safely vacate the building. Make sure everyone is aware of what is happening and also reassure them that by following your plan they will be safe, allowing them to be calm.

Give positive and genuine responses, making them feel good about themselves.

Keep the conversation focus on them by asking questions about their life and interests, listening attentively to the answers, and keeping eye contact throughout.

Once you’ve met a new person, be sure to display warmth and presence.

Arrive early, listen carefully, engage with your colleagues’ ideas, and ask lots of questions.

Remember that every problem has a solution, and with the right response, you can overcome these obstacles and retain your charismatic energy and behaviors.

What if that person is staring at you not to negatively judge you, but because they like your outfit?

Putting a positive spin on your inner concerns means you’ll find it easier to cope with them.

What you say, how you listen, and how you behave conveys a message to the people around you.