Making the decision to move a parent into a care home is one of the hardest choices a family faces. The weight of guilt, fear, and doubt can cloud even the most loving intentions. This book cuts through the emotional fog with practical, compassionate steps that help you focus on what truly matters: your parent’s wellbeing and your own peace of mind. You will learn how to recognise when care at home is no longer safe or sustainable, how to involve your parent in the process without overwhelming them, and how to evaluate homes with a clear checklist that goes beyond glossy brochures. The book walks you through every stage—from the first conversation to moving day and beyond—with honest advice on managing finances, navigating legal requirements, and handling the inevitable bumps. It also addresses the harder realities: when a home falls short, when a parent resists, and how to care for yourself without guilt. Whether you are just beginning to explore residential care or facing an urgent placement, this guide gives you the tools to make a thoughtful, informed choice. Part of The Caring for a Parent Library.
About the author
Georgina Oakhampton Netherwood writes for The Caring for a Parent Library.
