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  • trishiamembuat kutipan7 bulan yang lalu
    Delaying gratification is a process of scheduling the pain and pleasure of life in such a way as to enhance the pleasure by meeting and experiencing the pain first and getting it over with. It is the only decent way to live.
  • Aziza Mohammedmembuat kutipan2 tahun yang lalu
    What makes life difficult is that the process of confronting and solving problems is a painful one. Problems, depending upon their nature, evoke in us frustration or grief or sadness or loneli
  • Aziza Mohammedmembuat kutipan2 tahun yang lalu
    What makes life difficult is that the process of confronting and solving problems is a painful one. Problems, depending upon their nature, evoke in us frustration or grief or sadness or loneli
  • Aziza Mohammedmembuat kutipan2 tahun yang lalu
    do not belong to any particular school of psychiatry or psychotherapy; I am not simply a Freudian or Jungian or Adlerian or behaviorist or gestaltist.
  • Aziza Mohammedmembuat kutipan2 tahun yang lalu
    It is only because of problems that we grow mentally and spiritually. When we desire to encourage the growth of the human spirit, we challenge and encourage
  • Aziza Mohammedmembuat kutipan2 tahun yang lalu
    “Those things that hurt, instruct.” It is for this reason that wise people learn not to dread but actually to welcome problems and actually to welcome the pain of problems.
  • Aziza Mohammedmembuat kutipan2 tahun yang lalu
    In the succinctly elegant words of Carl Jung, “Neurosis is always a substitute for legitimate suffering.” *
  • Aziza Mohammedmembuat kutipan2 tahun yang lalu
    But the substitute itself ultimately becomes more painful than the legitimate suffering it was designed to avoid.
  • Aziza Mohammedmembuat kutipan2 tahun yang lalu
    There are four: delaying of gratification, acceptance of responsibility, dedication to truth, and balancing.
  • Aziza Mohammedmembuat kutipan2 tahun yang lalu
    Yet even more important than role modeling is love.
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