The Emily Post Institute, the most trusted brand in etiquette, tackles the latest issues regarding how we interact along with classic etiquette and manners advice in this updated and gorgeously packaged edition.

Today’s world is in a state of constant change. But one thing remains year after year: the necessity for good etiquette. This 19th edition of Emily Post’s Etiquette offers insight and wisdom on a variety of new topics and fresh advice on classic conundrums, including:

Social mediaLiving with neighborsNetworking and job seekingOffice issuesSports and recreationEntertaining at home and celebrationsWeddingsInvitationsLoss, grieving, and condolencesTable manners

While they offer useful information on the practical—from table settings and introductions to thank-you notes and condolences—the Posts make it clear why good etiquette matters. Etiquette is a sensitive awareness of the feelings of others, they remind us. Ultimately, being considerate, respectful, and honest is what’s really important in building positive relationships. “Please” and “thank you” do go a long way, and whether it’s a handshake, a hug, or a friend request, it’s the underlying sincerity and good intentions behind any action that matter most.

Daniel Post Senning